15 Smart Strategies to Reduce the Negativity in Your Life

Negativity

The world is full of nice people.  If you can’t find one, be one! [Click to Tweet]

We are all faced with challenging events and people throughout our day that can leave one feeling defeated, angered and stressed out. How we choose to deal with those moments will make all the difference in the world to you and everyone around you. I chose to start seeing my stresses and problems as conquerable challenges from which I can learn. I choose to focus on being a better person that I was yesterday.  I choose to laugh at myself and remind myself that we all make mistakes and that I’ll never be perfect!   Instead of focusing on the bad things, I want to recognize, appreciate and be grateful for all the good things in my life.  I’m working on living with intention, finding my purpose and inspiring and supporting those around me to do the same.
Identifying your negative thinking is the first step towards letting it go. I have come up with some strategies that have helped me deal with my own negativity and that of others. I am more mindful of my thoughts and when dealing with other’s negative thoughts and opinions I am more mindful of my reactions.  I know that by dealing with my own negativity I am better for all of those who are in my life.
Below are a few effective strategies to rejuvenate yourself when you just need to refocus on what is important to you in your life.
  1. Get plenty of sleep, exercise for at least 30 minutes a day and keep up a healthy diet.
  2. Think one small positive thought in the morning and change your whole day! There is power in positive thinking.
  3. Wherever you go, be all there. Be mindful of those moments instead of trying to control each moment and moment to come. Live each moment with intention knowing you have a purpose for being in that moment.
  4. Invest in the important relationships in your life. Do one kind gesture a day.
  5. Take a hot bath at least once a week for 20 minutes. Add a handful of Epson salts, 10 drops of Lavender oil and a half cup of baking soda.  There is not much a hot bath can’t solve.
  6. Say “I can!” Instead of “I can’t”. “The mind is everything.  What you think you become” -Buddha
  7. Look for the good in the experience even if it takes a while.
  8. Do something nice for someone. Help someone.  It will take your mind off of things and you’ll feel better.
  9. Have gratitude. Be thankful for all the good in your life. Make a list of 5 things for which you are grateful.
  10. Tap into your Spirituality. Pray and pray some more and/or meditate.
  11. Add humor to a sticky situation. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff.
  12. Take a deep breath and let it go. Whether for the moment or a lifetime. Walk away for a bit.
  13. Read a good book – one that you may get lost in for a while.
  14. Do more Yoga. Of course I was going to say that!  In order to lead a happy life one MUST balance mind, body and soul.
  15. Most importantly, if you can’t find a happy person in the room, BE ONE!
You can certainly make the world a better place by working on yourself and the space you create.   Tap into your compassion! [Click to Tweet]  Compliment, be that positive person in someone’s day, listen, hug and don’t forget to smile.  If all else fails, walk away, knowing that you are in control of your own happiness and that you choose not to take part in negative behavior.
What are some of the ways you overcome the negativity in your life?
Joy Vale
Patient Care Coordinator
July 29, 2015
www.balancingyourchemistry.com
Functional Endocrinology of Ohio
Akron: 2800 S. Arlington Road, Akron, Ohio 44312 (330) 644-5488
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